"Um.. well physically.. I guess..try to be as relaxed as possible.. and try to take all the new sensations in stride. It's supposed to feel good, not bad.. so if something feels bad.. tell the other person so they can stop.." she thought for a moment.
"Mentally, well I suppose you should be attentive to.. what the other person likes.. if the person makes a lot of noise, or encourages whatever you're doing, then it's best to.. keep doing it.." she blushed faintly.