All too familiar of how much he wanted to go to the next step, she wanted him to be reminded that it wasn't about the immediate gratification. That tantra took lots of time, and it wasn't about quick orgasms that took five minutes. He might go away having to take a cold shower at the end of this, but she'd do her hardest to make it not seem like he was cheated out of anything. In fact, she was determined to make him so in tune with her that he wouldn't care that he might still be hard when this session came to a close. Her chin lifted and she took his hands and placed them on her cheeks. "Touch my face.. my head, but don't go past my neck until I say so.. touch me how you want to touch me.. but listen for how I want to be touched.."