"It's okay," Lavender said with a laugh. "But that is kind of the point. Some people like spicy food, and some people don't, just like some people like certain types of sex and others don't." She sipped at her tea again, smiling over at him. "Sometimes trying things is a good way to understand them, yes, but remember you don't have to try anything you don't want to. If you want to understand things, you could try reading a book instead. They have books that explain it straight out, or there are books like the ones I write, stories where people have sex in them." Should she explain porn? Yeah... now was probably not the time for that, she'd already given him enough information to process.