Alright than, panic all you want, it's not going to help anyone-least of all you.
They're not fanciful if they're true. Here's a website to explain it *link* and you should have some documents on your person
From what I understand, she was pulled here just as she was killed, fulfilling the 'till death do us part'. I met Henry last week, and from what he told me, he was pulled when he was pulled before the 'Great Matter' even started.
If there are any other rules to this place, it's that the 'old rules' no longer apply.