It's a huge fucking job. Harder than herding cats. Even with Jean-Luc and I working together we barely managed it.
Hopefully she'll have better luck if she goes back. But honestly, I'd advise her to stay the fuck away. It's no good selling your future and happiness for a bunch of ungrateful misogynistic bastards who think arranged marriages are the way to solve every problem.
There's a reason I waited until after we'd left New Orleans for good to have kids.