I take time wherever, whenever, with whoever, if it's sufficiently entertaining. I am MARRIED to my husband, you know. We've been together for like 15 years or something. I'm not going to be a pirate forever. I don't need to spend every waking instant tangled in his embrace and cloistered from the world. We have fun together and have fun apart and have fun with other people. I bet he'd like to see it too. You could come hang with us sometime.