Varric
I haven't, no. Would it help? I could research.
I can't ask her to give up on her husband. He's her husband. That's a vow for life, it's sacred. Trying to convince her to forget him would be just...sinful, and wrong, and where's Sebastian when I need him, argh.
Look, if it were just that she had feelings for someone else, I'd fight away. But, married.