Lakshmi and I laid together a thousand years ago, if even that recently, and you presume that it meant anything more than a casual gesture on both our parts. She may have feelings for me, but I've been quick to point out that I have no such feelings in return.
Speaking of Lakshmi and Grigori... The way she felt towards me and I to her is mirrored in a dear Grigori's love of her and her casual disinterest in him. So I would very much not bring her up as a bastion of love and desire - especially since she is supposed to be married to another being altogether.
You misconstrue, and you misrepresent. You may have knowledge of all the cranial things in this world, all intellectual knowledge, but do you carry the burden of all the knowledge of interpersonal relationships? If you do not, I suggest you do not assume.