You are still one of the last Ferelden Grey Wardens who lived to see the wrong righted and the Blight ended. You have more courage than you give yourself credit for. You still stood to fight the Darkspawn when so many others would have run or perished.
True, I know she can handle herself. She did single-handedly kill two arls of Denerim, among others. It had been a while since we were properly together, yes. Her being the Warden-Commander kept her busy and my dealings with the Chantry kept me mostly in Orlais, but we still communicated by letter. Then one day, she just vanished without any word. Before the Chantry assigned me to find her and the Champion of Kirkwall, I tried looking for her myself. You Wardens certainly are secretive about certain things, but I think she still should've at least told me she had to leave and couldn't write or something. I thought...no, nevermind, I'm just being silly.