Oh dear, involved with Fenris? Now that's a laugh! Although I think I'm beginning to understand the dynamics of this. I'm just going to assume that I have to start from scratch when I introduce myself to everyone.
The Hawke I knew was a female, much like yourself and but definitely not a mage. She liked to stab things a lot. Trust me, talking about yourself in the third person can't possibly as confusing as this situation I'm in.