I think it's far different here then where I am. Most men, and women, fall into different castes. There is no caste equivalent to a Queen. A Warlord Prince, like myself, is the highest and most volatile caste for Blood males, we are just less of a Queen, who is the morale center of the Blood and the heart of the lands.
Demon dead is... well. It is bad in the sense that my body would be dead, but my Jeweled power is still too strong for me to return to the Darkness. The battle wounds remain and I need to adjust what I do in order to keep the Jewels and the body strong, but otherwise I am very much still present. Some find it disconcerting being around the demon dead, but I grew up with. My great-grandfather is the High Lord of Hell and rules the Dark Realm while still walking the living Realms. Much as his father did for over 60,000 years in the end.