Then stop talking about ending up in weelchairs. You're not that bad off, ok? I know you're in pain. A lot of the time, but you're going to be fine. We'll get you help.
I'd love nothing more than to have your baby, but I don't want to get pregnant just to see you kick yourself into a gutter over what you "can't" do in the future. Because there will always be things you can do.
I love you. And if you ask me, I'll do it. But you have got to start looking at life differently. You've still got me, haven't you?