Elena
Then you aren't fully loving. Making love and sex are the same- but yes I would be different. Your body would be a temple I would worship every chance I had.
You tend to hurt people too, Elena. Neither of us means to. And despite what you think or what Stefan tries to make you think or what Bonnie thinks- I don't mean it. Not to those that actually mean something. No, I don't always make good choices. I act on impulse and I don't always think before I take those actions. Unfortunately, even in death and immortality of the un-dead, I still have human failures.