Elena
People are judgey with vampire me because they think they know me and I make stupid mistakes. My father was judgey with me because I wasn't Stefan. And because I did not, to him, live up to the Salvatore name. And I especially did not, to him, live up to the pride that the eldest son of Giuseppe Salvatore should have.
Technically you've only ever seen the blood parts with me. We can change the sex part...