Good of you to stick up for yourself. 'Specially if there's a kid involved. My parents did the same thing when I was little. Loved each other so much they hated each other, finally just gave up and went their separate ways.
She's had a lot of stuff happen to her, the past couple months. And considering how I have to take care of my sisters and my dads? I'm not exactly the poster child for being there when she needs me. I just wish she'd take the time to finally end it formally, y'know?