Eliot
Yours and mine both. And I tried that once, actually. I was married once, and he got vortexed three days after. Then just a little after that the Purifiers kidnapped me, and for three days they raped and beat me. I saw a lot of bathroom after I got out.
Sam just needs time with Iggy to sort this through. Hopefully Parker just needs some time to herself. But I think she needs your family.