You are attractive and intelligent and fun. Also? You're a fucking Jedi in training. It makes sense that guys want you. You're both adults. Is he confessing feelings for you and begging you to dump me for him? Because if not and if he can behave like an adult, I don't see how there's a problem.
Let him badmouth me. Really. I'm used to it. And I don't know him, so I don't really care.