Mister Holmes. It does rather seem, if I might be slightly less demure than you're used to, that you would benefit from a turn about town. Perhaps you'd care to join me for tea some day? If not, please don't hesitate to decline, incidentally. One of the major differences here is that men don't really have to cater to ladies' wishes. Really, most ladies nowadays tend to resemble Miss Adler in personality. At least, the Miss Adler of Sir Arthur's stories.