That is where you're wrong. You cannot take care of yourself or you wouldn't have spent time sobbing in my arms this very morning.
And that is where you're right. That bitch, as you so eloquently put it, walked out on you and stole your baby. Your response was to destroy yourself and everything you hold dear. MY response, as the stronger, and infinitely wiser, of the two of us? Is to hold you here until you realize that what you were doing was not the correct response.