I didn't think you'd be keen on me asking you to be my dude of honor, so this is definitely the best position you could hold at my wedding.
Private: You're more than welcome to ask her to accompany you to the wedding. I'd love to see her again.
And be patient, my darling. Unless you want to fire her from your security detail or promote her to office work, you're going to have to just let her do what comes naturally to her. The rest will come.