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Tweak says, "I am Boy Wonder not Sunshine!"

Sam Ford (treated) wrote in undertherainbow,
@ 2010-01-22 10:35:00

Entry tags:

alec hardison, candy quackenbush, eliot spencer, kitt 2, navi, sam ford

{Eliot} Hey, so have you liked someone? Had a crush on them, whatever?

{Hardison} Two questions. Completely unrelated. 1.) Have you ever had a crush on someone and like.. told them about it?

2.) Can you send me the McDonald file?

{Candy} I am in Bali with Iggy. Ha.

{Navi} Um. So, my mom isn't here and my Dad is really bad at this sort of thing, so I was wondering if I could maybe ask your advice on something. You seem to have the most healthy relationship of anyone I know, so yeah. Um. So what do you do if you like someone and you're not sure. Or. How do you know if it's the right time to tell someone? And how do you tell them?

[edit:] {Kitt} FYI, in the future.. Stay away from my dad. I know he was already drinking when you talked to him, and it wasn't your fault he started, but he doesn't need people like you around. I don't care if he begs, you stay away from him. Because I will be able to find you, and it will not be pleasant.

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	Sam nanasaiddont 2010-01-22 04:46 pm UTC (link)
	1) Yes. A few times. Some worked a lot better than others. Why, what's up? 2) I can. 'Question is, how much of it do you want to see? And for my own third question: Where the hell'd you go? Your IP's in like... Indonesia-? (Reply to this) (Thread)

	Hardison treated 2010-01-22 04:50 pm UTC (link)
	1) Just wondering.. like.. how you them. 2) Dad already told me enough to know he's my brother. Trying to figure out if I want to ignore Eliot and actually get to know the guy. Want to know if he's actually dangerous, or whatever. I'm in Bali for the weekend. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

Sam

nanasaiddont
2010-01-22 05:08 pm UTC (link)

How I told them? Let's be honest, man: awkwardly. I'm not exactly the smoothest with the ladies. Although I find being honest is the easiest way, f'you're serious about it.

Alright. I'll send you the file. But I'll warn you- he's been involved in some shady shit. I don't know about him, myself.

Does this have something to do with that someone you think you want to talk to? If so, good for you, man. You deserve it.

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	Hardison treated 2010-01-22 05:12 pm UTC (link)
	So.. that works? I mean.. I don't know what I mean. This is hard. Shadier than the rest of my family? Maybe. Sort of happened on accident. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Sam nanasaiddont 2010-01-22 05:25 pm UTC (link)
	Rule of thumb: if you feel comfortable enough with the person to be thinkin' about talkin' to 'em like that? You should be safe. You can tell if they're interest, more or less, right? Just... trust what you think. Maybe not Eliot...? But your dad, yeah. More than you probably know about. Still. Don't question it. Some of the best shit happens on accident. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

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	thatswhatido 2010-01-22 06:16 pm UTC (link)
	Yeah. A few times. It's both exciting and frustrating and everything in between. You need to talk? Not sure I'm the best guy for the job, but I'll give it a go. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	Eliot treated 2010-01-22 11:12 pm UTC (link)
	Well, we know my dad sucks at it. I don't know. I'm just trying to figure out the 'how' and 'when' stuff. Kind of on a sudden romantic vacation with someone who has no idea I like them. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Sam thatswhatido 2010-01-22 11:18 pm UTC (link)
	Seriously. He's almost pathetic. Sudden romantic vaycay seems like a pretty good 'when'. The 'how' is a bit trickier. How is it you're on a sudden romantic vaycay with someone who doesn't know you like her? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Eliot treated 2010-01-22 11:26 pm UTC (link)
	Ah, well, we were just talking and it was like. 'Hey Sam, you're having a rough week. Wanna hang out?' 'Might be good to get out.' 'How about Bali?' But like.. I don't think they meant it to be a romantic thing. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Sam thatswhatido 2010-01-23 01:11 am UTC (link)
	But it turned in to a romantic thing? That's cool. You should go with it. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

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	knight_2000 2010-01-22 09:48 pm UTC (link)
	I apologize. I was already drinking, too. I'll stay away from him in the future. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	treated 2010-01-22 11:13 pm UTC (link)
	Appreciate it. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	knight_2000 2010-01-22 11:31 pm UTC (link)
	I'm a father, too. I understand. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	treated 2010-01-22 11:33 pm UTC (link)
	Well, just for the record, if you guys run into eachother at an AA meeting, I'd be fine with that. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	knight_2000 2010-01-22 11:34 pm UTC (link)
	I will keep that in mind. If I ever decide to attend AA. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

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	Sam heyheylisten 2010-01-23 05:54 am UTC (link)
	I don't know, really! Raven and I met and I just thought he was cute so I just leaned over and smooched him. Probably not the best route, really. I'd just say so! I'd say "Hey, I think you're cute, mister man, and I really like you". The worst thing they can do is say no. I'd rather know than have to wonder if they don't or not. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	Navi treated 2010-01-23 06:00 am UTC (link)
	That's really the worst? You don't think I could, like.. mess everything up or freak him out or summon a hell beast or something? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Sam heyheylisten 2010-01-23 06:06 am UTC (link)
	You're a silly monkey! (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Navi treated 2010-01-23 06:09 am UTC (link)
	And you are a beautiful, yet evasive fairy. You really don't think those things would happen? I mean, I'm not too worried about the hell beast thing.. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Sam heyheylisten 2010-01-23 06:12 am UTC (link)
	No hellbeasts. Worst comes to worst, maybe a moment of awkward and then you'll go back to being friends. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

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	toitshour 2010-01-23 05:55 am UTC (link)
	Oh really. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	Candy treated 2010-01-23 06:01 am UTC (link)
	Yeeeah. Don't really know how that happened. He suggested it. Ha. I'm going a little insane. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Sam toitshour 2010-01-23 06:04 am UTC (link)
	Pop the question, Sam. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Candy treated 2010-01-23 06:05 am UTC (link)
	Well, it's a little early for that. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Sam toitshour 2010-01-23 06:07 am UTC (link)
	The 'do you like me' question, dork. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

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