Well, you know dearest, it's never quite as satisfying to take care of the need myself, when I know you can make it so much better.
For instance, the way my own hand grips my cock feels good, certainly. I like the tightness of my grip, and how my hand adjusts to the pressure I feel within my sex. But when you have hold of me, dearest, and I surrender that control, the build up is so much more intense and the end result is infinitely more fulfilling.