Soren
There's nothing for you to be mad at yourself about. A romance like the one that you were attempting are so rare to actually work, Soren, and never between such young, still-learning individuals such as the ones you had in that group... It was a valiant, and beautiful effort, though, Soren. You did well with what you were dealt. And I commend you for that.
As for Miniver's ire, there's a lot more underlying it than his kneejerk reaction for going after the one thing he can perceive as a threat. I'll get to the heart of it, and help him bring things to light.