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I like the way you think. I'd say wait until the newest batch of crazy settles down, I'll send measurements and patterns off to the tailor, should be a week or so before we get the finished product back.
I don't care if my family's there, but we should probably let the husbands be there, just because, hell, we can just do it on the beach out back of the house, do a handfast, let them tie the ribbons.