IF YOU DON'T KNOW, I'M NOT GOING TO TAKE YOU DOWN THAT TRAIN OF THOUGHT. (It's actually considered extremely rude to allow guests to help with a potlach. They're supposed to show just how... something-something the host is. I have to do it myself, I'm afraid.)
The first thing that came to my mind was 'inappropriate use of play doh'. Don't ask why. I don't know. But there it is. And hey, I get along with you just fine, too. WHEN WOULD I EVER NOT, TELL ME? (Of course. I'll be waiting- the charm should put you relatively close to me.)