Edward
The health of her husband is legitimate. Not as though it could kill him, but still. I see it.
I can understand that. Where I come from, living as humans lived was considered a shameful thing, like pretendng to be less than you were. I was relatively excused, as a diplomat, but it forced me to do some... drastic things, to 'prove' myself to my kin, when I would return. The only suggestion I could make for that, is to try not to do anything you would regret as a human, if you'll be expecting to be welcomed back by them, come morning.