Sophie
You're putting way too much into this. Emma is important to yuo because you've spent time with her, you've actually bonded with her.
I've been here three, four months? I'm not going to be replacing parents I've had for eighteen years that quickly. It would be ridiculous. I'm glad that you feel that Emma is your mother, and that works out for you. But I don't. Don't make this into an arguement that neither of us want.