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Tweak says, "Will you permit it?"

Momos (mockitymockmock) wrote in undertherainbow,
@ 2008-11-09 01:38:00

Current mood:	curious
Entry tags:	até, henry tudor, momos

Gentlemen with significant others of the fairer sex,

I have a question for you.

Would you rather have your woman make love with another man, or another woman, or neither? And why?

I personally have no issue with same sex relations, while I definitely have territorial issues when it comes to her being near/around/touching another dick. She's wondering why it's different, so I though I'd ask and make sure I'm not the only one with the same conditions.

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	good_to_be_king 2008-11-10 06:18 pm UTC (link)
	I've actually just been through a discussion like this with my girlfriend. I'm going to have to agree with you almost entirely-- if she were to step out with another woman, I doubt I'd have any trouble with it, as long as she wasn't leaving me for her or something. But with a man? A little kissing or flirting doesn't seem a problem, but more? No, I don't think so. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	banishedruin 2008-11-10 06:44 pm UTC (link)
	But why? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	mockitymockmock 2008-11-11 01:21 am UTC (link)
	Because girl on girl is hot. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	banishedruin 2008-11-11 01:40 am UTC (link)
	So what you're saying is is that you are so sure of the magic of your dick that there's no way I'd possibly fall for another female... and so it's ok for me to shag them, as long as it's entertaining for you. But because you don't find it entertaining enough, men are out? See. It's that entertainment thing that keeps getting me. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	mockitymockmock 2008-11-11 02:09 am UTC (link)
	Hey, there doesn't have to be pictures. I can imagine just as well all by myself. And no, I don't think I have a magical dick. If you decide that you don't want to be with me anymore, you are more than welcome to leave. But don't cheat and don't lie. Be truthful to both of us. It's easier and while just as painful, quicker. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	banishedruin 2008-11-11 02:18 am UTC (link)
	I'm sorry. I still find the idea that I'd lie insulting. Either you're annoyed I'm with someone, or you're not. The fact that it's ok if it works as mind porn for you is just crazy. You're so lucky I'm head over heels about you. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	mockitymockmock 2008-11-11 02:22 am UTC (link)
	That I most certainly am. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	banishedruin 2008-11-11 02:28 am UTC (link)
	I'm going to go make out with hot women and not tell you about it now. Since, you know, it's ok. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	mockitymockmock 2008-11-11 02:30 am UTC (link)
	No no. I said don't cheat, therefore, I need to know about it. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	banishedruin 2008-11-11 02:39 am UTC (link)
	Then consider me telling you now. We'll start with those I know... Aphrodite, my sister, your sister... both of them, in fact. I just won't tell you when. we'll say... sometime between now and next year. Better? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	mockitymockmock 2008-11-11 02:42 am UTC (link)
	Somewhat, I'd prefer to know the day of. Just so I don't have to go looking for you...or wait, never mind. (Reply to this) (Parent)

	good_to_be_king 2008-11-11 01:43 am UTC (link)
	Territoriality is really the best way to describe it. I suppose the double-standard comes from some ingrained male belief that only another male might be a rival for one's woman. Not such a modern, enlightened stance, yes, but I at least have an excuse for thinking that way. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

banishedruin
2008-11-11 01:51 am UTC (link)

Trust me, honey, he's older than you are... but I can see the territoriality. And I get the idea of another female being less threatening, though given our society, it's rather laughable.

It's the idea that it's ok if he gets pics that makes this worth the argument.

But I thank you for at least admitting the double-standard, and not just telling me it's different, and I wouldn't understand.

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	good_to_be_king 2008-11-11 02:01 am UTC (link)
	Oh, I can imagine that evidence would soften the blow, so to speak. As I told your gentleman friend, I've recently needed to face the fact that I am "wired" a certain way mentally, and while it may not actually make sense or, indeed, be fair, it is the way I am. (Reply to this) (Parent)

	mockitymockmock 2008-11-11 01:21 am UTC (link)
	See, I even have an issue with flirting. I seem to have the need to declare my territory. But as long as there are pictures of some sort and/or video of the other woman and her? I really don't care much. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	good_to_be_king 2008-11-11 01:44 am UTC (link)
	Oh, I can sympathise. But I've always found it difficult to justify suppressing some of the very traits that attracted me to the woman in the first place. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	mockitymockmock 2008-11-11 02:06 am UTC (link)
	True, although my girl wasn't and really still isn't a huge flirt, so I don't usually have much to worry about. (Reply to this) (Parent)