Ate
There's no need to hurt him on my account. No offense, but I hardly ever risk anything quite so dire just for fun. Even though it seemed to be promising to be very fun.
If it would really make him feel better to work things out violently, and you weren't in the mood, I would spar him. I haven't had a good use for mindless violence in quite some time.
And really, gorgeous, think nothing of it. I'm rather use to being on the opposite side of this situation.