Sammy
It's not right, no, what she did. Have you told her that? Some women don't get it, cause well, some men are assholes and they think being a bitch is the only way to get stuff done. You ask her if she loves you, and she wants to marry you. If she does, then you work out a divorce. If not, well, that's harder.
Your mom was a trouper. And when it was you, I was happy, but I had to look out for Dean, too. He was pissed at first that he'd have to share his Mama, but he liked you when you came around.