There is nothing like sparring with your boyfriend who's the equivalent of four of you put together. It's quite refreshing to be practicing rather than working.
The exotic locale helps too.
You know, people should fall asleep when they think about killing each other all the time. The jobs dry up, and if they ask why I have a big empty patch on my resume, I can just say I was asleep.
And in the meantime, I get to enjoy the beach and some downtime.
We might even be able to go on a date without something going horribly wrong.