That wasn't what Nox meant at all, though whatever helped her adjust... Nox just wanted June to find her niche here. Maybe as she worked to fit in, for her own purposes, she'd find herself liking her surroundings and the people that occupied that space. It happened to Malakai, right?
"It's known as chivalry in this world. Men do small things of kindness to assist women.. pamper them. They hold doors, offer jackets when the woman is cold or when it's raining, and they generally pay for meals during courtship. It's how they earn the woman's favor, and it helps to impress her parents as well. It shows that you will be kind and devoted if you are selected as a mate." He tried to use terminology that she would understand.