Remus & Lily
Perhaps he felt like he was letting us down? Or perhaps he thought we had other problems to deal with. All we can do is make sure he knows we're here for him now.
Which we are. We're happy to have him (or all of you) over here with us for a bit, or give us half an hour to pack a bag for the sprog and we can come over there to give you a spell.
We're going to have to tell Minerva, at the very least. But I'd like to have a firm grasp on exactly what we're telling her, and maybe some strategies for damage mitigation, before we do.