Private to Mr Scott-Wilde
No, but it's because he loves you so much that he can look at things objectively and know that you deserve better. And yeah, maybe he does do all that, and maybe he did marry you because he loves you too but it still doesn't mean you don't deserve better and that he doesn't know it, it doesn't mean that his love is less it means that you should have more and you don't know it, but he does.
And what if it's not an act, what if it's just facing the truth regardless of what the truth is and then he's right, he isn't good enough for you because if he was, you wouldn't feel like that.