This isn't about slang. I understand that the word and the term is slang, what you still aren't grasping is the fact that it's a word used for far too long to demean, silence and regulate women. Here is an article about why one feminist Refuses to reclaim it.
Now, as you're not a woman, you automatically lose your right to even attempt to reclaim it. Any way in which you use it is disgraceful and sexist.