Dorian | Cullen
Well, my first bit of advice would be to try not to get too attached to any of the tapestries or wall hangings. They'll probably be ruined.
But in all seriousness, Tevinter might not be the best example. Children are important, of course, but they're more often than not raised in circles away from their home, and with mentors, which I'm sure isn't what you had in mind.