You'll find it. Everyone that's here for very long does. I think the most challenging bit is that because of the nature of our existence here this place throws ringers at you every so often whether it be in the form of new canon, someone new from home, or someone you're close to that left, all of that on top of trying to figure out what you have to offer when everything you know is at home.
It's not easy, but it's not insurmountable either.