Severus | Beverly
I'm not entirely sure. Just a sense of insularity and a vague feeling that they feel they know best, no matter what the situation. I'll freely admit the former is a case of the pot calling the kettle back.
It's more a vague impression than anything else. I could be wrong and I certainly don't wish to talk you out of seeking their help if you think it's the best thing to do. I am extremely paranoid so I tend to think the worst of people.