I'm pretty sure it is. I keep finding myself sitting in a chair with the last of the books about my life in my hands opened up to the relevant pages and with the feeling of the Wild Magic pushing me towards something. I know I can be a bit oblivious at times but even I can take a hint. Yeah, it was never an issue when I was living in the city because High Mages marry late anyway and don't have much to do with women at all and then after I left, I had the mage price.