That's ridiculous. I don't get that. How can they justify it being perfectly proper for one group of people and completely improper for the next? That sort of thing makes me so angry. I'm sorry you had to go through that. I respect you for standing up for yourself like that. That couldn't have been easy.
You're right. You're absolutely right. I hate that that is the way people decide to deal with it though. Live and let live, I say.