Well. I've never put much thought in about marriage at all. I mean, I was engaged so many times. It's what you did in our day, wasn't it? But it was never a statement for me, it was a means to an end. I think Tony would, and has, changed my mind about that and a lot of other things, but...
But until he realised we did, neither of us have thought about it. Now we are, and we are in part because... I was happy with him, him older and self assured and happy. I liked that. I liked not having to worry. Not feeling -- as he puts it, like I'm always ahead and he has to catch up.