angel | sam
Maybe if you can't sympathize, you could at least avoid not-sympathizing directly to his face? Dying isn't the worst of what he's been through, either, but he's still allowed to be upset about it.
I'm sorry about Buffy. Surely there's something we can do, isn't there? Tie her up if she actually starts trying to kill herself, at least? If you're serious about the suicide part.