JD | Ben
Oh boy, yeah, ok. Those points. All good points.
The crush feelings can shift, do shift. I mean, I still love MJ, but it's long turned into that sister-in-law sort of love. I remember crushing on her, falling for her, and yeah, the awkwardness of kissing her, but I was still trying to get over losing Gwen too. I never got whatever experience that push Pete over into what him and MJ have, even if I'd do pretty much anything to protect her, but then Kaine's got that protective streak for her too. Plus, ok, our universe's weird history, but I'm used to MJ and Pete being married as the status quo. The situation we have now at the house and that? Won't be that different at all really. So, it'd be the same level of weird, just with a bit more bling and wifey/husbandy language.
Second point, I don't think you'll have to worry about that for awhile. That's a big step that's got a lot of feelings attached. Spider pregnancies aren't easy... There'd be complications to prep for and it... didn't go so well last time... They've got May here. They've got their daughter. I don't think they're in any rush to give her more siblings, especially when either of them could disappear any day.
Last point, right there with you, but it's Pete. Like I said, kinda used to this status quo. Pete just has that ideal normal life for all the craziness that goes on. But with everything he's been through, he deserves it. Even if you have to web him to the floor to make him stay home and appreciate it sometimes. Yeah, it hurts and sometimes it's jealous making, but you power on through, y'know?