Not the same. Darla's never been a mother before. I can guarantee you she never loved me the way she loved Connor. She wasn't capable of it. But some part of her is now. I can tell from the way she talks about him -- she doesn't want to admit it just yet, but it's there. Give it time, and it'll grow. It'll change her the same way Spike changed. She just needs me to give her a chance.