May |Dinah
Because suddenly they're getting confronted by the fact they're more successful than they dreamed they would be, setting an example to you. They're terrified because they've been in the business and know what you're facing out there. Being a woman hero is a bit more dangerous in some ways than being a male hero.
My mom did her best to forbid me from becoming Black Canary despite the fact she was Black Canary before I was born.
You have to be gentle with them for a while. They're proud of you so much they could burst, I know.