Caroline
Probably not, mainly because I have never been attracted to a 'he'. I know there are people who are attracted to both genders but I cannot say I've ever been attracted to a man. That said, I didn't mean to imply it was a bad thing that you thought it, or it would be a bad thing - other than said lack of attraction - for me to date Fred if she was not a woman, just that I probably would not. And I am so used to thinking of her as a woman, I sort of forgot that her nickname might imply otherwise to someone who had not been introduced to her.