[Georgie/Jacen]
I think the key message there is that life is full of mistakes, occasional choices that end well, happiness where you can find it, and a lot of pain everywhere else. We're all the same, the only thing that matters is the impact you have on others.
I get the secrecy bit, more than I can accurately convey. I don't want to walk around with a sign saying what I apparently end up doing either.