Spare us your judgmental idea of a "group discussion". I'd ask my friend to kindly hack and delete this, but you're entitled to make you own decisions about posting such paternalistic drivel thinly disguised as a community concern.
It's absolutely not your place to judge when or if anyone chooses to have a child. If that person should turn out to be a neglectful or abusive parent, or to disappear entirely without having made arrangements for the continuing care of that child, then it can become a community concern.