I don't think you are. Even stripped of other reasons, men objectify women enough as-is, and alcohol doesn't tend to make men more sensible. And it's men, really, that are the problem in this -- and most -- equations.
I'm a rather firm believer that quite a few illegal activities do more harm in remaining illegal than they do good. Human trafficking, drug smuggling -- that could all be greatly reduced if laws changed. It's like prohibition, really. Take the income away from those who cause harm to get it.