Rogue/Emma
Then find another descriptor. Rogue, lover of romance novels; Rogue, mother of dragons; Rogue, aggressive vegan, etc. Or deal with being the older version of yourself.
It occurred to me. But I think you're good with people and can turn those things into hope for her future. Like I said, you don't have to do anything. I just wanted you to be aware. I'd want to know if it were me.